My previous text is definitely misleading (indeed, this is not my text). The nightmarish vision of women to work outside is as exaggerated as the idyllic vision of the housewife. Before harvesting vegetables from the garden had to spend hours at work and whether unions lasted longer in the past, this does not mean they were synonymous with happiness (neither one nor the other, by the way).
However, this text is not totally free of certain truths, to me at least:
1 / The status of the housewife has been devalued to the point that gives a picture of a gourd or of lazy women "inactive". Yet a well kept home is the foundation of a harmonious couple, even if some household tasks may be entrusted to an external provider, it will never replace the "hostess". It may make your home clean and orderly, but never warm. All things being equal, a man much prefer a woman knowing simmer a dish rather than ruling over-booked.
2 ° / The roles of men and women have seriously complicated as and when the emancipation of the latter. To resume use of the current newspeak, it's a lose-lose situation. By mimicking male behavior, women have also recovered the flaws. their consumption of alcohol and especially tobacco tends to closer to that of men with adverse consequences that implies. An effect of stress?
Beyond a detrimental effect on their health, working women have also discovered an unintended consequence related to their new status: the difficulty in finding a partner.
This little dialogue between "Executive Woman" (EW) "Sexy Friend" (SF) in the pool just illustrate this difficulty. I'm not saying that is EG, you can easily find:
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EW: Pete did not called. I was good and nice to him but it did not work. It did not work either with the other men I loved and wanted to meet recently.
SF: I think you know what your problem. Once the man of your date realizes you're an executive who earns over 250,000 a year, they stop seeing you.
( EG: Yes, I know the phrase from the singular to the plural ending ...)
SF: Men seem to be afraid of powerful women. I guess that makes them feel powerless in the relationship.
EW: is true and there is no need to go that far. Once they see my Mercedes Benz I never hear about them.
EW: If you excel them, they start to feel like a failure, as if the relationship was a battle between two partners. They feel lost a battle from the start. SF: I guess they feel they are the main providers and they have control of their families, so they feel they have control of their lives.
EW: is amazing as our limbic system or mammalian brain, controls our cortex and dominates our rational thinking to this day. I do not know what to do.
SF: Well you'd better buy a car more dated, to wear head of cheaper without losing your sexy side. Tell them that the role you play in your company is not so important. Give yourself more dependent without losing your independence. Over time they will feel safer with you and their primitive brain will stop feeling threatened and begin to see things from a different perspective. If they feel that you respect and that you will not leave them because they make less money and also that you support them in their life decisions, their brains chimpanzee feel reassured, calm and they will stop the fighting or attempts leakage.
( EG: I worry fuck me brains of chimpanzees. Allez hop, soup served hot and on time ... and in corset and high heels!)
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